Wednesday, June 13, 2012

If only I had a job...

Those are six words that I never thought would come out of my mouth!! Our move to Wichita gave me an opportunity for the first time since 2004 to just take a break from working and take in all the changes that were happening in our life. I will admit that it WAS very refreshing at first. The first 3 weeks were great; sit by the pool, sleep in, look for houses/apartments, spend time with Dean, get to know the new city, go to morning zumba,ect. But, Wichita isn't THAT big of a city so the exploring only took about a week, we got burned out by the lack of places to live quickly, and Dean soon had to go back to work himself. (the air force gave him a 7 day vaca to help me search for a house and get acquainted with the city) I even decided that I would register for come college classes to take up time and sadly learned that I had missed the registration deadline for summer (June 1st). SO....it appeared that my only option was too start a job search.(BOO!!!) Being a full-time, stay-at-home puppy mom just wasn't doing it for me anymore. Luckily, during our house hunting fiasco I made Dean stop at a couple places-including a Dr's office-to put in some applications. Not thinking that anything would come of this job opportunity I also put in applications at a home health agency and a long term care facility. Because, if you are not familiar with healthcare you know that there's not a huge demand for LPN's in an office setting. To my surprise I got two calls that week!! One from the doctor's office and another from the long term care facility. I was feeling so lucky I almost went out and bought a lottery ticket! I knew at this point that  I was at least going to get one job offer; the long term care facility. I have been a nurse for about 3.5 years and almost exclusively worked in long term care and short term rehab. It's kind of my niche, if you will. So, I feel more than comfortable interviewing for a position that I know I am 110% capable of rocking! The doctor's office on the other hand was going to take some preparation. I have zero office experience (even in college I worked retail!) and most certainly no family medicine experience. I soon realized it was time to turn on my charm:) It was really the only chance I had, charm the pants off of HR (what do they know REALLY about nursing??) and at least get my foot in the door. By then, it would be too tedious to interview and hire someone else when I had already learned most of my job in the first couple days (i really am a quick learner!). I interviewed for both jobs the same day. Family MedCenter at 10am and Manor Care at 2pm. My charm, talent, and overall knowledge (you know you love it!) worked instantly at Manor Care and I was offered and accepted (what the heck) a full time 2nd shift position with the largest corporate long term care company in the United States. This was good for two reasons:1. LTC is my comfort zone so it would be easy to catch on to my job responsibilities and 2. Manor care has 500 facilities in the US so I would almost be guaranteed a job anywhere that we move. The only problem was that Kansas denies employment to health care professionals who don't have an active Kansas License and mine was pending. So, I was hired but scheduled to start at the beginning of  June. This ended up being the best "clause" ever because in the time that it took for me to get my temporary permit from the state Family MedCenter called me back to offer a second interview. (YAY!) This time with their office manager (RN) and the MA I would possibly working alongside. OK, NOW I'M NERVOUS! I can't charm these people, they actually (hopefully) know what my skills and experiences should be:( Much to my surprise, I seemed to be exactly what they were looking for. They were pleasantly surprised that I had previous training on EMR (as this is what they operate under in the office) and actually impressed that I had worked in long term care and short term rehab because the job at this office required me to be very familiar with pharmacology and labs. (BINGO! I KNOW THIS STUFF!) So we laughed, I bragged about how great I am and we shook hands. I left the office with the reassurance that I would get a call to tell me either way, if I was being offered the job or just not the right fit. At this point I was still convinced that this was a loss and I would be returning to LTC. Please don't get me wrong, I actually REALLY love long term care. My fellow nurses, CNA's and KMA's will tell me I'm crazy but I really do love it. I love the rush of have to manage your time when there's an emergency and you have scheduled assessments to do and an admission comes in and at the end of the night it's all finished and you go home (somewhat) on time. It a feeling of accomplishment that I love! And the residents! Who doesn't love a little old lady who calls you fat or ugly or tired just because she's like 104 and can!?? Or a man who probably can't see past his palm who tells you you're beautiful every time you walk into his room? (and you may go in there every hour! SERIOUSLY!) BUT. BUT, BUT, BUT. Being a nurse for 3-4 years and only working in one environment/field of nursing can be limiting. And as much as I love what I did in LTC, I also thrive for the opportunity for advancement and learning. Even though working at a Dr's office doesn't scream: EXCITING, it's new and different, and not an opportunity I have ever been given. So, when Cathy the office manager called me back I was sure that her tone was saying "sorry, you suck. have a great life." So sure that when she offered me the job I had to act like my phone broke up so that I could gather my thoughts! I was being offered a job that I actually wanted, I would get to possibly learn something new, and I was getting to keep my salary from LTC. THIS CAN'T BE REAL??! At this point I was 100% sure that we had been transported to OZ! I couldn't believe that as a nurse I was finally going to have a 8-5, no weekend, no holiday job with my own desk. WOW. I have a real job! I will admit there was a small internal struggle when she told me I would work mon-fri with a half day thurs because if you've ever talked to a nurse about work-perks, they will have told you that working 3 days a week is the best part! But you make sacrifices (yes, 5 days a week is a sacrifice) to get something you want. SO...I ACCEPTED TO JOB!! I started this monday and so far, so good. It's a little humbling because I really am a little lost about the whole hustle and bustle and office protocol. I learned quickly that chewing gum is a big no-no:( But in exchange we get a catered lunch 3 times a week. sooo.....I can learn to carry mints:) But weekends off and no holidays will be a welcome change! I just hope this isn't a honeymoon phase and that I really continue to like it!

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

There's no place like home

This post is a little dated but with our move and lack of Internet resources I have been forced to post from my phone to make up for lost time. And, if I'm going to do this blog, I want to include as much as I can! So, as some of you know two weekends ago I got the chance to fly back to my old Kentucky home to accompany my dad on yet another 12 hour drive to Kansas (yipeee...)This time though, with all of our stuff!! Because at last it was time for us to finally move into our house:) and because my dad is awesome and agreed to drive a 24' rental truck 800-some-odd-miles containing all of our furniture and clothing and life necessities. It also gave me the opportunity to attend a wedding reception for our good friends Mason and Annie. (Which was a blast!!) And although I was only able to spend the weekend in Lexington, (I literally flew in Saturday morning and drove out sunday evening) it was so refreshing to get to see many of our close friends and family. It would be easy to insert the quote, "you don't know what you have until it's gone." here but that would be false in so many ways. Although Dean and I were excited to start our new adventure together with the Air Force and we were over-joyed by the opportunity for travel, we both always knew the hardest part about following this dream would be leaving our home. Now as everyone knows I am a blue blooded, all american, army brat. Born and raised, second generation. I moved, A LOT. I am a modern day nomad. I am from everywhere. I have NO home. BUT Kentucky IS home. It's where my family is from, it's where I was born and (partially) raised, it's where Dean and his entire family (seriously) were born and raised, it's where Dean and I were married and started our lives together and it's where our best of friends are! It's a small-big town and it's home. Which is why we both knew that leaving our comfort zone would be one of the hardest things we have ever done. On my drive back into Lex (Abby, Mindy and Alli were awesome enough to pick me up in Louisville)I stared out the car window taking everything in and noticing that nothing had changed. Of course nothing had changed, I had only been gone a month! I told the girls that day that living in Kansas was like going to Narnia. I felt like I had been away for YEARS and that I had grown and changed so much only to come home and see that everything was the same:) I think originally it was our fear (or at least mine) that we would move away and everything would change without us. Leaving us in the past and our friends and family in the future. But after seeing my in-laws and nieces and our dear, dear friends I realized that home is always going to be HOME. It will always be warm, welcoming, and full of love. Dean and I can't begin to describe how lucky we are to be surrounded by the group of people (friends and family) that we are. I guess you really can always go home, but clicking your heels three times doesn't really take you there. Unless you're clicking on a plane or in a car of course:)
Below are some pictures of our amazing friends from the reception.
(Thanks Abby!!)
me, alli, and abby!
myself and the beautiful bride!!!(and her awesome st.lucian tan!)
it's a really cute picture, if you're laying sideways:)
my lovely date for the wedding! (never mind that her husband was sitting next to us!)
the girls! <3 them!!